Do you think women know their husbands are cheating and turn the other cheek?

Do you all believe that some married women know theyre husbands are cheating and still stay with them? because I cant see women watching theyre husband flirt and not know it? I was sexually harrassed by a man (family friend... not any more) at 15 in him and his wifes house... his wife walked in the room saw him in the bed and left the room.... when I told her what was happening (week later) I thought she was gonna get mad she didnt even get mad she said thanks for telling me 5 years later they get a divorce and he was put in jail on of sexual abuse charges two different times and not one of those time were when I was sexually abused by him because I didnt press charges because she was a family member. My neighbor is open with his cheating he drive around with young girls in his car and his wife acts like its normal... maybe she thinks their getting rides from him... are women not knowing... or know and just dont care?